The pioneer psychologist, William James
(1842-1910), once said, “Habit is the flywheel of society.” He meant that so much of life is driven by
the huge gear of habit. It is the
aggregate of our established ways of behaving automatically without need of
forethought. You may laugh, but it’s how
many of us get from 6 am to 9 am each morning.
Major changes in life may call for new habits. Old ways
are not always best ways, or worse, they can lead to disaster. Here’s what I mean. My parents were Salvation Army officers
(missional pastors and administrators).
The Army moved them from appointment to appointment on average every 4.5
years. This meant that as children we were
often changing homes, schools, friends, and communities, and sometimes twice in
an appointment. Such change sometimes
occasioned small disasters.
One disaster stands out from all the others
in my memory for its earthy nature. One
of my brothers was only five years old at the time we made a major move to a
new house. At age five he had been
trained to avoid bed wetting in the old house by making his own way at 3 am
from his bed to the bathroom and back to bed.
His old habit worked well even when he did so when still partially
asleep. He would take X number of steps
out of the bedroom, turn, Y steps down the hall way, turn and Z steps to “le
toilette.” You may imagine the disaster
coming. In the middle of the night in
the new house, the little guy rose and took X steps out of the bedroom, Y steps
down the hallway, and Z steps arriving at my father’s closet. You guessed it. A disaster unfolded too quickly to be
arrested by a panicking father. You can imagine our father’s displeasure. I can tell you he did not wear his uniform
shoes to the office the next day.
From the earthy nature of that narrative, I
hesitate to make the comparison to a new life of faith, but the truth
remains. When we find ourselves moving
from one place spiritually to another, our new life calls for new habits not
only for sake ourselves, but also and for the sake of others. Old habits, friends, tastes, language, old
haunts and neighborhoods and social life, old patterns of life, and former steps
onto dark paths and into dark places occasion undesired outcomes. Old habits and dispositions are the reason for so much recidivism back into the old life. New life in Christ calls for new habits of the heart, new priorities, new routines, and
new ways of living. A new heart and life surrenders old, dysfunctional, redundant habits and dispositions and seeks new,
spiritually healthy ones.
New life means waking-up to pursue new ways and means of loving and pleasing to God. The old ways and means no longer meet our deeper needs. Frankly, the old habits displease God, because they fail in the face of temptation and result in sin. The new
means are transformational. They are spiritually healthy habits of the heart:
time daily in the Word, prayer, thanks and praise, wholesome fellowship, music, and literature, worship, and serving others. Such habits mature and foster our desire and
ability to love God profoundly and to love others as profoundly as well. These are the habits that John Wesley called
the means of grace, not our means, but those means by which God provides us with His
grace. His means make us aware of his presence and strengthens us in our faith. Together, the practice of diverse means of
grace comprise a new set of holy habits, a new flywheel of holiness in a Christ follower’s
life. Glory to God!
Teach me your
way, O Lord and I will walk in your truth.
Give me an
undivided heart that I may fear your name.
Psalm 86:11
This wncourages me as I am in the midst of forming some new holy habits. Bless you Dr. Raymond!
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